Men Surveyed on the turn them on in bed
Did you know that 41% of men prefer A-cup breasts over D-cups?
And that 53% of guys wish they had a bigger penis?
We polled 400 men to get the truth about what they want between the sheets
1) In bed, I would rather please...
my partner: 78%
"I've been with a lot of women, and being pleased isn't the point. It's more fulfilling to see your partner enjoy herself. Besides, I get so turned on by just watching a woman let go in bed."
Kyle, 26, waiter
"When it comes to sex, I'm a taker. When was in college, I dated this woman for about a year. She was really into pleasing me--manually, orally, and however else. I bet that's why we lasted as long as we did."
Russell, 25, personal trainer
2) I want a bigger penis.
"I think the length is all right. But like most men I wouldn't mind more girth--and I sometimes worry my lack of size doesn't do the job in bed. An extra two inches would do the trick."
Craig 32 therapist
"As my rabbl used to say it's not the size of the dreidel but how you soin it. I am well equipped and can satisfy a woman--though I did once steep with someone who complained about my size."
Ian 27, editor
3) I prefer a woman with...
D-cup breasts: 59%
"Since puberty, I've fantasized about being with women who can really fill out a T-shirt. So most women I've gone out with have had ample chests. To me, bigger is just sexier."
--Cary 28, student
A-cup breasts: 41%
"Women don't have to be stacked to get my attention. Most thin women are small on top-- that's the body type I like, It's sexy when a girl can throw on a tank top without needing a bra."
--John, 41, contractor
4) I'd be disappointed if my girlfriend's breasts were implants.
If they make a woman feel better about her body and give her confidence that's fine with me. Besides if they took and feel great why should I be disappointed."
-- Patrick 25, factory worker
"I'm not interested in anything on a woman's body that's been surgically enhanced. My girlfriend isn't huge on top, but she's nicely proportioned-and 100-percent real. And I wouldn't want her any other way."
--Matt, 29, banker
5) I 'd like a woman to ask me out.
"It's sexy when a woman goes after what she wants. In fact, my current girlfriend asked me out first and her confidence was such a big turn-on, I'm still with her two years later."
--Joel, 27, medical researcher
"I question a woman's motives when she asks me out. One woman who made the first move on me turned out to be married and looking for a way to get back at her husband."
--Steve, 33, graphic designer
6) I call myself...
a breast man: 48%
"Breasts are what I notice first, because they look so warm and inviting, in fact, sometimes, I just can't help but stare; they're what make women women."
--Mark, 26, actor
a butt man: 29%
"I wish every woman had a butt like my wife's. There's nothing better than a woman strutting her stuff."
--Frank, 37, club owner
a leg man: 23%
I'm totally turned on by women in short skirts. In fact, baggy sweatpants should be completely banned."
--Al, 24, financial manager
7) I like my partner to dress up as...
a schoolgirl: 47%
"The other day, I saw a woman in an outfit that looked like a Catholic-schoolgirl uniform, and I couldn't help but fantasize about that little plaid skirt--and what was underneath."
--Liam, 27, musician
a nurse: 35%
"After minor surgery last year, I developed fantasies about my gorgeous nurse. After all, what would be better than being spoon-fed Jell-O after a long sponge bath?"
--Daniel, 32, publicist
a prostitute: 18%
"I'm a fan of the pimp/prostitute fantasy, because you don't have to be shy about doing dirty or taboo things; you re supposed to be doing dirty and taboo things."
--Matt, 24, social worker
8) I prefer to date a woman with...
a great face: 61%
"When I'm playing onstage, I look out at the crowd and make eye contact with the audience, especially the women, to connect with them. So a stunning face--and spellbinding eyes in particular--are important to me."
--Jim, 38, musician
a great body: 39%
"A nice face is fine for day. But come night, I want a killer body. Recently, I went home with a woman whose face was OK. But when I undressed her and saw her incredible curves, I was a happy man."
--Harry 40, lawyer
9 I say "I love you" just to get sex.
"I won't sleep with a woman don't love-- even if that means I won't sleep with a ton of women in my life. American men tell women almost anything to get them into bed. But I'm from Trinidad, where a man would rather get to know a woman before having sex."
Nico, 47, security consultant
"I always tell a woman I want to sleep with that love her. Recently, I met a woman at a bar, and we had a one-night stand. Before we had sex, I said I loved her-but I wasn't lying. While we were in bed together, I did love her."
Jim, 39, driver
10 I'd want to know if my girlfriend was cheating on me.
A few months after I broke up with my girlfriend of four years, a mutual acquaintance told me she'd been cheating on me. It was devastating that she did that--but even more humiliating that she got away with it.
Roldan, 30, scuba instructor
"If my girlfriend met a guy one night she just couldn't resist and slept with him we'd both be happier if never found out I just hope she'd afford me the same luxury.
Kevin 27, corporate planner.
11) I want a woman to...
tell me if she didn't have an orgasm: 88%
"I wonder if my ex-girlfriend really enjoyed sleeping with me, because I'm not convinced she ever climaxed. If she'd been more open, I could have worked on my technique, and sex might have been more pleasurable for both of us."
Danis, 27, graphic designer
fake an orgasm if she didn't have one: 12%
"There have been times when I could tell a girlfriend--or two--was faking it. But I appreciate that they were trying to protect my feelings. I'd prefer that a woman fake it and give me helpful hints later, rather than kill the moment."
Efrain, 34, interior decorator
12 After 10 years of marriage, I'd rather have...
sex get boring: 54%
"Every morning, when I wake up next to my wife, I look forward to spending the day with her, because we communicate so well. Though it doesn't sound sexy, marriage is a merging of minds more than a coupling of bodies."
Paul, 28, club owner
conversation get boring: 46%
"Any day, I'd rather have sex with a woman than talk to her, There are a half a million things to do in bed,' and not nearly as much to talk about."
Nick, 25, painter
Publication: Marie Claire
Author: MCCORMICK, SHANNON ; MULCAHY, LISA